Reader matter:

I am a stylish, in shape and fun-loving 63-year-old female. I’m fed up with browsing Internet online dating sites and singles occasions because men you satisfy have a lot of baggage and so are perhaps not thinking about any kind of long-lasting relationship.

Could there be other way to meet decent men?

-Melody (Missouri)

Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Response:

Dear Melody,

Mild newsflash: anybody who’s inside their 50s or sixties boasts an eternity of emotional “baggage.”

But luggage also can imply the tender psychological dents of love and reduction, and constructing an union with these people suggests having compassion for their existence encounters.

As for where to fulfill guys within the real life, I always state would everything fancy and you’ll find them indeed there.

Should it be farming, wine sampling, volunteer work or business, when you would everything you fancy, you’ll satisfy liked-minded those who can share your own interests.

Build the life you dream of and a mate can meet you there.

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